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Stay Out of Women Business

I am back with a part 2 of “WE ARE TIRED”. Okay, if you are on Twitter or any social media, then you probably see how men are always speaking on women businesses. I don’t know about y’all, but I am tired of it. When are they are going to learn to stop speaking on things that does not concern them? That goes for anyone if you want to be honest. We all need to start minding our own business. That’s a topic for another day though.

But today this post is about how men are speaking on things they will never have to experience and telling us how we need to handle things. For instance, menstrual cycles, there is no reason why a man should be telling us how to act on our menstrual cycle, like what?!? Boy, mind your business because I know for a fact you would not be able to handle one. So don’t tell us we should not have an attitude because we are on cycle, like do you not know all of the complications that women have to go through? Obviously not, so until you have experience a cycle, I advise you to keep your two cents to yourself.

The same thing goes with pregnancy, until you have to carry a baby for nine months, PLEASE do not tell us what to with our bodies. Until have to choose between your life or your child’s life when giving birth, please leave your insensitive comments to yourself. Until you have to have experience a miscarriage, please do not tell us what to do with our bodies. Until you have to experience a high risk pregnancy, please do not tell us what to do with our bodies.

Please, don’t say no insensitive mess like, “well if you know the complications of being pregnant, why not just use protection or just not have sex,” little do you know, some females cannot get on birth control and birth control does not always work, also along with condoms. How about you learn how to stop sexually assaulting women. SERIOUSLY, I am sick of women suffering. I am tired of Black women having to suffer with the complications of giving birth because of the racism we have to experience in healthcare places. At this point it is heartbreaking and draining. So, for men to give their opinion on our bodies is so disrespectful because they will never have to experience half of the pain we have to go through.

Ladies, when are these men going to learn that we don’t care who they date or about their preference. Like dude we don’t care about you liking women outside your race. I promise we don’t, that’s your preference. BUT please don’t drag us in the process. It is when y’all start putting Black women down while letting people knowing your preference, especially dark skin women, and when it becomes a problem. I am truly disgusted how Black men talk down on dark skin women, like you are a disgrace to the Black community. I will never understand how a man can tear a Black woman down when their mother is Black and when they have Black sisters. Like please seek help and counseling because you are obviously dealing with some deep issues within yourself.

On this last point I’m just going to say this, OUR LIFE DO NOT REVOLVE AROUND YOU MEN. We get dressed up for ourselves, we wear makeup for ourselves, we do things for OURSELVES! Also, PLEASE understand we are not obligated to date any man just because they are interested. So stop making threats and nasty comments when we reject you. Stop trying to humble us every chance you get because you look foolish. Like please get over yourself & grow up. On that note, to my Black sisters we are strong and courageous, and we are the future leaders of this world. Which is why they are so quick to pick at us, but we no longer stand for it. We will let our success speak for us!